For Those Whose Fathers Failed by Alicia Ruggieri

We are once again blessed by the presence of our long time friend Alicia Ruggieri from ABrighter Destiny. She is a seasoned Christian Fictional Novels Writer. I love her stories and they safe, whole and filled with lessons.

  
Alicia Writes....

God is Our Father...
Is it that hard for us to comprehend, to grasp what that means for us? For many of us, especially those without Christian fathers or those with “Christian” fathers who don’t walk with God, I think so.

And yet God wants to be known – not just with our heads, but more especially with our hearts – as our Father.

And not one like frail man, but the ideal, unfailing Father.

Has your earthly father ever betrayed you?

Go to the Father in Heaven, One who will never betray you – will always remain faithful:

“But I will not break off My lovingkindness from him, Nor deal falsely in My faithfulness.”
Psalm 89:33

Did your earthly father promise you something and then go back on his word, even unintentionally?

Your Heavenly Father always keeps His promises to you; He stakes them on His very Name:

"Now behold, today I am going the way of all the earth, and you know in all your hearts and in all your souls that not one word of all the good words which the LORD your God spoke concerning you has failed; all have been fulfilled for you, not one of them has failed.”
Joshua 23:14

Was your earthly father selfish, choosing his own pursuits and interests and comfort above yours?

Your Father in Heaven loves you to the point of sacrificing the darling of His heart, His own Son:

“ For God so loved the world that He gave His only begotten Son, that whoever believes in Him should not perish but have everlasting life.” John 3:16

Did impatience rule your earthly father’s mind and heart and soul?

It doesn’t rule your Heavenly Father’s, who waits that He may be gracious to you:

“The Lord is not slow about His promise, as some count slowness, but is patient toward you, not wishing for any to perish but for all to come to repentance.”
2 Peter 3:9

Has your earthly Father forsaken you?

God the Father will not:

“Be strong and of good courage, do not fear nor be afraid of them; for the Lord your God, He is the One who goes with you. He will not leave you nor forsake you.”
Deuteronomy 31:6

Do you feel the weight of your earthly father’s expectation of your performance?

Your Heavenly Father longs to supply your every deficiency and forgive your every repented sin:

“He has delivered us from the power of darkness and conveyed us into the kingdom of the Son of His love, in whom we have redemption through His blood, the forgiveness of sins.”
Colossians 1:13-14

I’ve been thinking about God’s fatherhood a great deal recently because the third book in my A Time of Grace series released on July 22, 2016. It’s called A Love to Come Home To.

So much of this novel revolves around the journey of Ben Picoletti – a young man who has let his heart callous over the wounds inflicted by his earthly father. I’d love to have you join Ben on his unintentional quest for wholeness and his discovery of what true, sacrificial fatherhood looks like.

You can find out more on my website: AliciaRuggieri

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