You are Already a Winner! by Natalie Abrahams


Everyone wants to be a winner in life; the best, number one, the owner of the crown.  Somehow, the worldly system drives us to believe that only first place is the winner and that competition is good and healthy and creates a sense of commitment in participants.  

However, for our Christian life, this theory is not a healthy one.  

For we dare not make ourselves of the number, or compare ourselves with some that commend themselves: but they measuring themselves by themselves, and comparing themselves among themselves, are not wise. 2 Corinthians 10:12

I believe that I AM already a winner, and so are You.  

Constantly comparing yourself to other people will result in you undermining your accomplishments and possibly slowing yourself down. 
 
God created us winners.  

God intended for us to live a fulfilled life and lacking nothing. 

I once presented a workshop titled, unwrapping the gift.  Like I shared in the workshop,

The gift is YOU. 

You are a gift to this world. 

You matter. 

You have a specific, predestined God’s-given purpose to fulfill.

You are Beautiful, talented and blessed. 

The gift wrap is Your LIFE. 

All that you own, you are and are going through.  

Just as when we receive gifts, the wrap usually gives a hint of the present we expect. 

When the wrap is beautiful, we look forward to a nice gift.  And we unwrap the less attractive gift last.  Well I think we all do same.

When I look at people, I see them as GIFTs.  This may be the person’s accomplishments and or achievements but we may not like the wrapping paper or gift bag (their journey or experiences). 

The Bible instructs us not to be envious of one another. 
When envy kicks in, we start competing with them and focus of our God given purpose; we focus on their achievements and physically try to beat them. 

This by no means is ever healthy. 

No two people’s journey will ever be the same, because our purpose is different. No two people’s process is the same, although at times they may be facing similar challenges or situations.  Based on our beliefs, skills and life experiences we will differ.

God has instructed us to live quiet lives, minding our own business.
And that ye study to be quiet, and to do your own business, and to work with your own hands, as we commanded you; 1 Thessalonians 4:11

You become frustrated and irritated if you don’t achieve results, because your desire to achieve is based on another person’s life.

You become drained emotionally, physically and spiritually, trying to live someone else’s life.  

God never intended for us to compete with anyone. 

No matter how insignificant your accomplishments may seem, if God ordained, they will impact and impart where intended by God. Jeremiah 29:11 

I encourage you to compete with yourselves.

BEAT YOUR OWN RECORDS. 

Aspire to be greater today, then you were yesterday. 

There is room for improvement and room to improve YOU.   Never shy away from learning. 

Remember that you will never ARRIVE. 

As long as you travelling this beautiful journey of your life, you will fall, get up, learn, be taught, and face many trials.  The greatest reward is knowing that God promises that our trials are for the testing of our faith and for the building of character.  Our character is built through perseverance. Proof that we have persevered is seen in our maturity. 

Remember,

The most important thing in life is not in your past but your future. 
When we learn to compete with ourselves, constantly improving to become more Christ like, we set ourselves up for greatness. 
God promises us that when we mature we will receive the crown of glory that He has promised us.  Aspire to be better than you were yesterday, every day. 

You are already equipped for this journey that lies ahead. 

Your journey is unique.

The answers to all your questions are found in God’s Word and not in someone else’s journey. Look within you. 

If you are in Him and He is in you then you are all that He is.  

You are already a winner.

ABOUT THE AUTHOR
Natalie Abrahams is a Ministry Wife, an International Speaker and a Life Coach. She is the author of “Get up and Go on”. To book Natalie Abrahams and to get a copy of  her book, please send an email: virtuouswconnect@gmail.com
Find her on Facebook Virtuous WoMan Connect  and Twitter - @Natz717






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